Jessica+E’s+OpEd+Article

=“All Girls Want is Sex, and all Guys Want to talk about is Their Feelings.”= media type="file" key="jessicae-muckraker-0910.mp3" This is well known as a Facebook group, however is it true? Switch the genders and it is completely true. It’s like a tradition for dads to worry about their daughters dating guys because of what they have in mind and I know personally I just thought whatever. And was I wrong, guys keep it in your pants!

It doesn’t even seem like relationships exist anymore, that all that matters is how soon you’ll give up sex in a “relationship.” And if you are against sex before marriage it’s like forget it all because none of that “nice boy” exists anymore. In fact, guys rather just hook up then go on dates, even try for a relationship. I don’t know if this is what dads were worried about, but if so damn guys are fuckers.

Not only do they cheat and lie but break our hearts. It seems like the moment every thing could be at its best, that’s when it all goes down hill faster then how it started. Guys just lead girls on to play, I don’t know if they realize it but we have feelings and the only reason girls seem more emotional then guys is because we’re the ones always getting hurt. We girls never have time to recoup, because every time we meet a new guy we have hope that it will be different and when one makes it sound like it will be to us we believe it. Stupid girl. First off, once a cheater always. Second there is no difference between a guy and an animal. And finally guys are so stupid, they have no common sense no matter how easy we hint it to them; in fact even when we tell it straight out they still don’t get it! That or they just play stupid and want us to get mad and not talk to them till they want make up sex.

And guys wonder why we seem so scared, because we have to worry about getting hurt! Whether is how we grew up or previous boyfriends, girls remember it all! So as a girl we try to overcome our pain and cover it up with a smile, or our actions that get us known as slutty. That’s right in order to get a guys attention we find being a “slut” will turn them on more and have them running to be with us. Well they definitely are running for something, what your offering, not what we girls want though.

So what are we suppose to do to get a guys attention? Be ourselves, yeah that’s real original and seems to work. That’s why we have online dating and blind dates or cats. I wish guys would see our personality not what we could offer. That it’s what our eyes say or our laugh that draws them in not Whats popping out of our shirt. Guys are dirty and will never change no matter the generation. This cycle of life is driving me insane why can’t we just all get together or not need the opposite sex. So guys want sex and girls want to talk how they feel, well guys you got a hand and girls you got friends.