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Society get out of my Sex Sex. Sex is one of the most awkward things two humans can do with each other. However we do it because of how good we feel after also the urge to reproduce is part of our human build up.

Many religious groups agree that sex should only be done in marriage between a man and a woman. The reason for this is because of the chance of pregnancy or sexually transmitted disease. As well as the emotional scarring that can happened between teens. However in this day in age we are provided with lots of resources that help us avoid these problems. Even as a teen, we could make a run to plan parenthood and get free condoms with is one of the biggest solvers for sexually transmitted diseases and pregnancies. If for some reason the condom wasn’t to be trusted any teen can get tested or shots for free. If two teens are smart enough to get tested and/or condoms then they must be mature enough to be safe during sex. As well as realizing the emotional consequences of having sex. Why do teens need to wait for marriage to have sex? By the time two people get married shouldn't they know how to please each other? Practice makes perfect. Having sex helps us to understand what feels good. Better to learn younger which also helps us to be more comfortable about sex. Shouldn't we be able to have sex with whomever we want as long as we are being safe? When religions say that sex in marriage is only for a men and women they couldn't be more wrong. Yes, if you are straight you should be able to have sex as a heterosexual couple. But so should homosexual couples be able to have sex without people telling them it is wrong. Everyone deserves to feel good, if feeling good means having sex with the same sex then so be it. No one should tell them otherwise. In society men are taught to have sex with whomever they want. It's almost glorified when they do sleep with many girls. However when a women sleeps with lots of men she is then thought of as a slut. Women should be able to sleep with as many people they want and not be slut shamed. By slut shaming, society is teaching the younger generation women to not be comfortable with their sexuality. If the desire is there then follow it. Go after that orgasm and don't feel ashamed because of who or how many guys you have slept with. Also in society the topic of sex seems to be a very awkward one. However we need to get over ourselves. If we don't talk about sex how can we be safe. It may seem uncomfortable but shouldn't your safety come first. We need to know what the other person likes. Where they find pleasure. Who will get the condoms, or if they are on the pill. When was the last time you were tested? As important talking before sex is, talking during sex is even more important. When doing something as intimate as sex we should be able to talk to our partner. What feels good? If they are in the right spot. If it doesn't feel good, then telling them what does. Having sex is so pleasurable why wouldn't we want to have it. Society needs to be more open about who should have it, when they should have it, how many times they should have it. Society needs to be more open about sex,